Tip 2 Rumors
Provided by the Safe Schools Unit, San Diego County Office of Education

Students:

• Don't believe rumors….they're usually lies
  
• Don't start or pass a rumor, encourage friends to do the same
  
• Empathize---think how you would feel if someone started a rumor about you
  
• If you hear someone starts a rumor about you, don't accuse just talk with that person alone, in a non confrontational way
  
• Use "I" messages…"I was hurt"
  
• Rely on your self respect
  
• Give respect to get respect

Parents:

• Don't gossip, modeling is most powerful form of teaching
  
• Listen to your child's dilemma---empathize, validate their feelings
  
• Role play/discuss non-violent solutions ahead of time
  
• Praise their positive actions

Schools:

• Offer conflict resolution classes